Monday, October 1, 2012

Experiences can be Deceiving

For those of you know me, you know that I have a silly side and I’m not afraid to use it. It’s not uncommon for Sarah to roll her eyes and lament her marriage to a five year old. Feeling like a child in my marriage every once in awhile is fun and Sarah and I get to laugh together at my expense.

Unfortunately, it is also not uncommon for me to feel like a child in ministry, and it’s not because I am being silly and there is nothing fun about it. I began full time work in student ministry over a year ago, but it still feels like I just started yesterday. I am often overwhelmed by the weight of ministering to students with God’s word, managing relationships in the church, and balancing ministry and family life simultaneously. But I have noticed that certain things get easier as I get more experience doing them. So I often think that all I need is more experience to make me more mature and therefore more competent in ministry.

That way of thinking is gently rebuked by this paragraph from Paul Tripp:

“There is a critical difference between street-level wisdom gained from experience and spiritual maturity. You may know what's going to happen next, but you may not deal well with these circumstances because you lack maturity. If all we needed for maturity was experience, we'd know a lot more mature people, and Jesus would not have needed to come. Experience will teach you some things, but it has no power to make you holy. Sadly, when you let experience deceive you, you quit being committed to change, because you don't think it's needed.”

Experience can be a very good teacher. It has the power to teach me some things in the work of the ministry. But I need to remember that it has no power to make me holy.

God help me not to be deceived by experience. Don’t let me be snared by the trap of maturity based on my experience. Give me a desire to grow in holiness and therefore a desire to be committed to change for the rest of my life. Let experience be my teacher; let it not be the basis of my spiritual maturity. May it ever be that even as I grow in experience, the mark of my spiritual maturity would be to think of myself exactly as I ought—a man condemned apart from grace; but by grace, set free to change no matter how much experience I may obtain.

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